Tired of Not Being Heard? How to Communicate Fabulously

Tired of Not Being Heard? How to Communicate Fabulously


Is communication a problem for you? Is it hard for you to confidently say what you mean, and easily be understood?

Do you often stumble and stutter when you have something important to say? Does it feel like your throat is blocked and your voice is stifled?

Are you terrified to speak your mind?

Do people understand you? Are you ‘seen’ and ‘heard’ by others?

Communication is one of the most important life skills. If you can’t communicate well, you can’t be understood, helped, supported and respected.

If you can’t communicate properly you also can’t share yourself. Your creativity, ideas, desire, passions and fears. You’ll find it difficult to fully partake and be in the flow of life.

Being in the flow of life means being open, connected and actively engaged with other people, the planet and the greater Universe. If this isn’t happening your needs are not being met, and you’re not able to enjoy the bounties of life.

We thrive in life when we share ourselves, and when others share themselves with us. We are only happy when we are in a state of interconnection.

Communication is a full-bodied, full-sensory, full-chakric experience. Although it is important to have a healthy and fit throat chakra – your chakra 5 makes sure you are communicating properly – fabulous communication happens when all of our chakras are working properly.

The job of your throat chakra is to articulate what you want, and to make sure this is being heard and acted upon. Many of us though, feel conflicted and don’t know what we want. This then makes it very difficult for the throat chakra.

The job of the throat chakra is to honestly and authentically communicate how we feel, think and what we need. A conflicted throat chakra can only express for us: “I don’t really know how I feel or what I want!” How frustrating!

To be able to communicate fabulously you need to make sure that all of your chakras know what they want and need, so that your throat chakra can ‘pass on this information’ to the outside world. The only way this can happen is by having fit and healthy chakras.

If your base chakra (chakra 1) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you need to feel at home, to feel secure and belong to a tribe. If other people know this, they can support you in this.


If your sacral chakra (chakra 2) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you desire and what your passions are. What you need to feel beautiful and desired. If you can tell your lover those intimate things, think about how good your love/sex life will become.


If your solar plexus chakra (chakra 3) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

Your moral code and boundaries and how to defend them. What you believe in and will stand up for. If you can say no, and stand up for yourself peacefully and confidently, you not only are able to withstand conflict, you will transform conflict into peaceful negotiations.


If your heart chakra (chakra 4) is working properly, it can tell your throat chakra:

What you love. Who you love. Your throat chakra voices the love you feel and want to give. You can only get the Law of Attraction to work for you if your are giving love! If your heart chakra or your throat chakra aren’t working properly, neither is the Law the Attraction in your life.


If your throat chakra is working properly – and chakras 1 – 4 are working properly too:

You can communicate fabulously, easily express and attract what you need and desire, as well as share your unique personality and style with the world.


Success, prosperity and recognition are only available to those people who are interconnected and engaged with life. Those people that are not afraid to say what they mean, mean what they say and show up in their unique way.

It is only ever through communicating and connecting with another human being that we move closer towards living and expressing our life’s purpose, our grandeur.

Whenever you feel the need to attack someone verbally, or swallow what you need to say, or even refrain from voicing your opinion because you are afraid, remember…..you are cutting yourself off from the life and the flow of goodness.

In those moments you need to overcome your fears and use your throat chakra, (and then go home and balance your chakras!)

Here’s to fabulous communication. Wouldn’t it change the world!

in White Light + Love,


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  1.  | 

    Ooh la la~ I love this post! With my gorgeously aligned chakras, I’ve witnessed my chakras ‘working it’ for me naturally and graciously. And ever since I strengthened my solar plexus chakra (3), I am now communicating with others in my Power & my Truth (5) + my heart chakra (4) allowing me to communicate with LOVE.

    With Love & Truth, and feeling SAFE (1) while knowing exactly your sensuality and desires (2) … life becomes really fun. 🙂

    In other words, *eh hem* this works!! Cleanse and strengthen your chakras, listen to Belinda, sign up for white light!!:) xx

  2. Julie

    Beautiful. Thank you. May our chakras become aligned with our truth as we read your words of light and wisdom.

    Thank you.

  3. Emma

    LOVE this post! I think that it can work the other way around as well: I’ve recently joined a singing group, and this experience has lead me to focus not only on my throat chakra, but to notice how my whole body resonates after a singing session. Mind you, it’s virtually impossible for me to sing without dancing, so I’m sure this helps 🙂 It really feels like the vibrations have circulated through all of my chakras and it’s helping me to manifest some amazing things. I feel so much more vibrant as a whole person and it’s opening up my creativity, passion and confidence to be authentic in myself.

  4.  | 

    I remember asking for White Light around my throat chakra a few weeks ago and hearing my intuition almost immediately say “it’s about more than just your throat chakra” almost immediately after I hit send!

    Indeed, now that I’ve been practicing your chakra cleanse more consistently, I’ve realized that healing needed to begin around “what” I’m feeling called to say before I focus on the “how!”

    Thank you for this post – yet another affirmation that I’m on the right path 🙂

  5. Lisa

    Thank you for this post. I am experiencing lots of tension in my throat area and constantly feel as thou something is stuck on my voice box and it is driving me crazy!!
    How can I get my throat chakra to work properly when i have spoken to the person I believe is causing such constriction but it doesn’t change the situation. this person doesn’t listen and doesn’t want to change as they feel they are right and they should be looked after. this person is family and I just cant be anymore clearer!!

    • Belinda Davidson

      Hi Lisa,

      This is challenging! If you solar plexus chakra is balanced, and your throat chakra is balanced you can (usually, with most people) easily communicate how you feel and what you need to do to be heard. But if you are doing the chakra work already, and it isn’t shifting, it sounds like you need some help. Put it on the White Light list, and I’II send you White Light to help you out.

  6. Lisa

    Dearest Belinda

    Thank you for getting back to me! I am currently enrolled in your course and I’m working daily with your Chakra cleanse meditation (which I love) and Im currently focusing on my Chakra one. I will definitely put it on my White Light wish list. Thank you from all my heart

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