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Day 4: Chakra Language: Love

Jutta

Jutta was convinced that she couldn't go on anymore in her marriage. Her husband was arrogant, argumentative and dominant. Either he tried to control her completely or he acted like she didn't exist.

"The only time he's nice to me is when he wants sex," she told me. "I can't do this anymore. I'm exhausted and I'm starting to hate him."

Jutta's energy field certainly looked fed-up. Her third chakra showed me that she couldn't fight against her strong-willed husband anymore and that she truly was ready to give up. She was like a defeated warrior, weary of the battle; exhausted and angry.

Her heart chakra was also blocked.

Jutta felt burdened by having to continually give to someone who only ever took from her. No matter how much she tried to voice how she felt - (fifth chakra) - her husband would either speak over her or turn it around so that her opinions and desires appeared selfish.

She felt trapped and was at her wits end.

When I told Jutta that her third, fourth and fifth chakras were imbalanced, she said, "Ok, that makes sense but how does that change my husband's behaviour?" I explained to Jutta that her husband wasn't really the problem - her imbalanced chakras were.

A stunned silence followed. "Are you saying that I'm causing my husband to behave the way he is?"

"No," I replied,  "you are not responsible for his behaviour but this is happening to you, it's in your life. So you are drawing this into your life, and it's happening because your chakras are not doing their job properly."

I went on to explain to her what had caused her chakras to be blocked, what had happened to her in her past, so that she could understand why she had weaknesses in these chakras and was in a constant 'battle' with her husband.

Although Jutta was angry and exhausted, I knew that she loved her husband dearly and didn't want the marriage to end. I showed Jutta how to strengthen and look after her chakras and how to disengage energetically from her husband's domineering and manipulative behaviour.

I also showed her how to 'hold her own' and protect her own energy when she felt her husband was bullying her.

A couple of months after our session she wrote to me, telling me that a miracle had occurred: her husband's behaviour had drastically improved!

He was now quieter, more relaxed and not at all domineering. He was no longer pressuring her for sex, had begun to laugh and joke and would even ask her for her opinion on things!

"And the best thing about it," wrote Jutta, "was that I didn't even have to try to change him. I just worked on my own chakras, and my healed chakras healed his!"

Luke

Luke couldn't meet the right woman.

In his early twenties he'd had numerous relationships but after his most recent relationship had ended, he decided he couldn't go through the heart break again. He tole me, "Relationships are not for me."

Although he didn't want to be single, he felt he had no other choice.

As you probably already suspect, Luke's heart chakra was very blocked. Due to his past disappointments, he'd closed it down in order to not let himself get hurt again.

Shutting down the heart chakra may make you feel numb and tough and more able to deal with life's hurts, but the flip side is that it stops you from allowing love to find you!

But this wasn't the only reason why Luke couldn't find the right woman: Luke also had major blockages in his second chakra.

In his second chakra I saw that Luke's mother had passed away when he was eleven-years old. This traumatic event had caused such great grief and sadness that it had stunted his development.

Luke felt abandoned by his mother at a time of great transition in his life: moving from boyhood into puberty and then into manhood. Losing his mother at this time had prevented him from energetically moving away from dependence upon his mother towards dependence upon himself. His independence.

Luke was still looking for his mother, and he was looking for her in his romantic relationships.

I told Luke about what I saw in his second chakra and then I started to quiz him about his past girlfriends. I asked him:

Were they older than you and mature women?

Were they compassionate women, who looked after you?

Did you want to move in with them or have them move in with you very soon into the relationship?

Were you emotionally dependent upon them and did you expect them to solve your problems for you and protect you?

As I asked him these questions and as he continued to answer 'yes' to each one of them, I could see that Luke himself was becoming aware of what had happened in his past relationships.

"So," I said quietly, not wanting to be too direct in my approach and offend him, "can you see a recurring theme here?"

"Yes," he whispered, his voice catching with emotion, "I'm still looking for my mum in other women and this is causing my relationships to fail."

Luke went on to tell me that his past partners found him, even after only a short space of time, needy and suffocating. His last relationship had actually ended because his girlfriend said to him, "I'm not your mother!"

At the time, he thought she was just being dramatic and projecting her own unresolved past onto him but now he realises the truth of what she was saying.

I also asked Luke about his sex life in his past relationships because I couldn't imagine that it was very fulfilling. One of the most unsexy thoughts for a woman is to sleep with someone who wants you to be their mother. So I was convinced that this area of his life also wasn't working.

Luke confirmed this. After the initial couple of weeks, it almost completely fizzled out because, as Luke told me, "My partners didn't feel attracted to me anymore."

I taught Luke the chakra cleanse meditation and knew he would successfully change his vibrations because he so eager to change.

Suzie

Suzie had a similar problem to Luke, she also couldn't meet the right person.

"All the guys I've gone out with end up being jerks," she told me. "When will I finally meet the right guy?"

Suzie's energy field showed me blockages in her third and fifth chakras. I could see in her third chakra that she could be very argumentative and very fixed in her beliefs about what was right and wrong.

When I asked her about this, she said, "Sure, I know what's right and wrong, and I see it as my job to teach others what's right and wrong."

I also saw in her fifth chakra that she liked to be the boss and believed that her way of doing things or expressing herself was the only way and right way. Suzie certainly liked to wear the pants in the relationship and I was starting to become convinced that these "jerks" were probably nice guys that had simply had enough of her.

Suzie felt justified in her bossy behaviour because her mother - (also the pant wearer in her marriage!) - always told Suzie to 'stand up for herself' and 'get men to do what she wanted.'

"A healthy self-esteem," I explained to Suzie, "allows others to be the way they are and doesn't feel driven to control others. It also doesn't try to make others believe what we believe. A person with a healthy and secure self-esteem feels so secure within themselves that they are happy to let others simply be."

I knew that what I was explaining to Suzie was a certainly a very new way of looking at things and that it would take some further explaining to convince her.

Laura

Laura also had imbalances in chakras three and five but unlike Suzie's, hers were under-used.

"You need to learn to create boundaries in your relationships and stop letting men walk all over you," I said to her. "You've got to learn to stand up for yourself and say what you want."

Laura was an easy-going, well-natured woman, who loved to give 'all of herself' in a relationship. Her third relationship had just ended and she was not only broken-hearted, she was confused.

"But I gave him everything he wanted," she sobbed. "I gave everything and even that wasn't enough!"

"Maybe that was the problem," I said, "perhaps he stopped respecting you."

I taught Laura how to strengthen her will and sense of self by practicing the daily chakra cleanse, paying special attention to her weaker chakras, chakras three and five.

Julie

Julie was worried about her son.

"I spend all day worrying about my son" Julie told me "He is 17, distant, moody, and I often don't see him for days at a time."

When I looked at the energetic connection between Julie and her son, I could see that nothing was wrong with her son. Apart from his lower chakras showing me that he felt tired and worn out by his parents' constant questions.

He was just going through a phase where he needed 'time out' from his parents.

"Don't worry," I said to Julie, "he is just going through a phase where he needs to be away from his parents. He needs time out to discover himself.

"He's ok. Just leave him be, and in a couple of months it will change and he will be around much more."

And he was.

David

However this wasn't the case with David's daughter. David told me that his daughter had been withdrawn lately and was irritable. He was worried that they no longer had a good relationship.

When I looked at her energy field, I saw in her second chakra that she'd recently had an abortion and this she had not told her parents this.

Not wanting to disclosing the truth of what was really going on and breach his daughter's privacy privacy, I told David that his daughter was indeed having a difficult time but he could reach her by holding thoughts of love and adoration of her in his thoughts.

I knew that if David did this he would not only be able to emotionally bridge the gap he felt between them but that he would also be able to support her in her difficult time.

David did this, and a couple of days later his daughter told him about the abortion and together they sought medical and psycho-therapeutic help for her.

Tanja

"I can't stand my sister," Tanja told me after I mentioned to her that I saw that she was a twin. "I know we are supposed to be close and alike, being identical twins and all, but I'm sure we come from different planets."

When I looked at both of their energy fields, I saw that what Tanja was saying was true. The only thing that these two had in common was that they looked the same and had the same parents!

Tanja's energy field showed me that she was naturally introverted, loved digital art, plants and spending time alone looking at the stars. Her twin sister was extroverted, a social butterfly and someone who loved shopping malls, partying and being constantly surrounded by other people.

Tanja's energy field showed me a blockage in her heart chakra. Half-expecting this blockage to show me how much Tanja and her sister were different and would never be able to get along, I was surprised and delighted to find out that this wasn't the problem.

"You do love your sister," I told Tanja, "you just don't feel love for her like you think you should.

"Ever since you were young," I went on, "people have told you that you should feel very close to her because she is your twin. But you simply don't. Stop pressuring yourself to feel something for her that you just don't, and then, the two of you will get along just fine."

Hearing this, Tanja's burden lifted instantly. She walked out of my session room much lighter and much more at peace.

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Day 4: Chakra Language: Love

Jutta

Jutta was convinced that she couldn’t go on anymore in her marriage. Her husband was arrogant, argumentative and dominant. Either he tried to control her completely or he acted like she didn’t exist.

“The only time he’s nice to me is when he wants sex,” she told me. “I can’t do this anymore. I’m exhausted and I’m starting to hate him.”

Jutta’s energy field certainly looked fed-up. Her third chakra showed me that she couldn’t fight against her strong-willed husband anymore and that she truly was ready to give up. She was like a defeated warrior, weary of the battle; exhausted and angry.

Her heart chakra was also blocked.

Jutta felt burdened by having to continually give to someone who only ever took from her. No matter how much she tried to voice how she felt – (fifth chakra) – her husband would either speak over her or turn it around so that her opinions and desires appeared selfish.

She felt trapped and was at her wits end.

When I told Jutta that her third, fourth and fifth chakras were imbalanced, she said, “Ok, that makes sense but how does that change my husband’s behaviour?” I explained to Jutta that her husband wasn’t really the problem – her imbalanced chakras were.

A stunned silence followed. “Are you saying that I’m causing my husband to behave the way he is?”

“No,” I replied,  “you are not responsible for his behaviour but this is happening to you, it’s in your life. So you are drawing this into your life, and it’s happening because your chakras are not doing their job properly.”

I went on to explain to her what had caused her chakras to be blocked, what had happened to her in her past, so that she could understand why she had weaknesses in these chakras and was in a constant ‘battle’ with her husband.

Although Jutta was angry and exhausted, I knew that she loved her husband dearly and didn’t want the marriage to end. I showed Jutta how to strengthen and look after her chakras and how to disengage energetically from her husband’s domineering and manipulative behaviour.

I also showed her how to ‘hold her own’ and protect her own energy when she felt her husband was bullying her.

A couple of months after our session she wrote to me, telling me that a miracle had occurred: her husband’s behaviour had drastically improved!

He was now quieter, more relaxed and not at all domineering. He was no longer pressuring her for sex, had begun to laugh and joke and would even ask her for her opinion on things!

“And the best thing about it,” wrote Jutta, “was that I didn’t even have to try to change him. I just worked on my own chakras, and my healed chakras healed his!”

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